Are you in a relationship? How long have you been together? If it’s been a while, then you might be having a bit of a dry spell. It definitely happens in relationships. You get too used to each other, take each other for granted, and the romance dries up. When the romance goes then the sex goes with it. There’s a possibility of sex once in a while but it can be rather dry and dull. When it comes to making love with someone you’re with the quality should matter more than the quantity and now you aren’t really getting either. When things get too platonic and sex goes away then you can take measures to start up the spice again.
Look Up New Positions OnlineThe first culprit of things getting a bit more friendly than romantic is your bedroom demeanor. Examining your sex life can point you to clues as to why you might be feeling a little neglected in the bedroom. Don’t take advantage of being with someone by thinking that what worked in the beginning will always work. You and your mate need to try new things to keep any sparks alive. Look up some new positions on the Internet or try including some different props in the bedroom. If you’ve never done something like oral then now’s the time to try. Try to go outside of the box and see what hits and misses.
Reignite the Romance with a Nice Date
There’s nothing like a good time out with the person you love to reignite a sense of passion. If you really want to revisit your relationship’s youth and its great sex and long, lusty embraces then you should do what you did WHEN that was what was going on. Get back to dates and walks in the park. Go out for drives just for the hell of it and to listen to the engine running while you talk for an hour. The little things may not mean much now but later on in life you’ll realize how much they actually mattered to your romance.
Talk About Compromising and What Your Partner WantsPossibly the most important part of reigniting the fire is listening to your partner and understanding if there’s actually a bigger problem. There might be something underlying here. Maybe your partner is going through something or feels neglected by you while you’ve been feeling the other way around. Regardless, see if you can sit down and talk the problems out. Express your own feelings and see if they match up. Listen to what your significant other wants from you and try to deliver. If it’s something that you don’t understand or like then try to compromise with them to get to a place where you are both comfortable, happy, and trying to work out your differences.
Be Spontaneous and Surprising
This is pretty much a no brainer. When you want to spice things up then the best way to do that, on its face, is to start being spicy yourself. Start being spontaneous and surprise your partner with sexual night in a hotel. Plan a trip and spring it on them. Do new things that you normally don’t do. Anything that you were doing before in the line of romance and intimacy: flip it. The more you decide to be surprising and new then the more likely you are to ignite something. As you go you can then escalate situations to higher and higher forms of sexual spontaneity. Pretty soon you’ll be sneaking out to go to hotels to hook up just like you were doing in the beginning of your relationship.